A New Voice, A New Dream
Read these great insights from Marshall Goldsmith's blog.
More and more, reality should play a significant role in your business plan. You might say; "of course." But you might be surprised how often emotion plays a part in your forecast/plan.
Let's all ask the tough questions regarding our work-our lives too..
The thought of mistakes can drive some people nuts-I'm one of them. Well, I used to be.
As time has moved on, I've have learned the art of, not only learning, but seeing mistakes as a tool to reinvent. It has served me well in the following ways:
I became a guide long before I became an entrepreneur. That's important because it reveals motivation. Don't get me wrong, I don't deserve an award or a round of applause. But for context purposes I believe it to be important.
When I first began this journey almost 7 years ago, we were living in a different time. People (specifically in the corporate world) were running at a fast clip and hiding. Fast clip in regards to chasing down success, and hiding in regards to thinking success (rewards/outward manifestations) could shield us from having to deal with who we really are.
Then came along the meltdown. The economic stuff caught many off guard and left many facing detours or "road closed ahead" moments. Maybe God was doing us a favor. The quintessential "hey, you need to take off the mask and be who you are" moment. There really is no substitute for authenticity.
But here's the deal; not many coaches, leaders, gurus, consultants, et al. are advising you to pause and look around. Seems like there's just a lot of selling going on. 7 years ago it was how to turn all that fast-track good will into the next big thing, or a seminar on how to retire at 50. Now we've moved to programs on starting your own business now that Fannie Mae has sold us down the river, or how to turn government stimulus funds into a cash-cow.
Maybe you were meant to follow the path described above. But don't go there unless your wiring (your personality, your vision, your talents) is a fit. Don't follow that road because of someone's or something's dogma persuades you to. Life is so brief.
I have a vested (read my book, read my bio, see what others are saying) interest in you following the path that your destiny is screaming for you to follow.
Here are some things to weigh as you decide who you should trust:
This post and mission are all about a matter of trust.
"Without a clear vision, odds are you will come to the end of your life and wonder. Wonder what you could have done-what you should have done. And like so many, you may wonder if your life mattered at all."
-Andy Stanley
In the coming weeks we (Epic Living) will be introducing a program that will guide you to your better future. In your life, in your business, and in your career.
Don't leave your vision behind.
This video clip (courtesy of InsideWork) illustrates how influence works, and how what you want is often paved with pain.
Enjoy!
You never know the leader's true core until the "crushing blow" comes.
The following video from Business Week features a conversation with Jim Collins. He lauds the journey of Steve Jobs. There is much to learn from his observations.
My friend Matthew told me yesterday that it is most important to focus on the "what" and not the "how." It seems to me that people like Steve Jobs get this too.
As I looked at my father's gravesite for the first time today, I couldn't help but think of his ability to just "move on." That's a very valuable tool in life and career.
He had presence, but he always had this sense to know when the game was over. Almost like a coach saying "we're down by twenty and there's only two minutes left...time to accept the loss and prepare for the next one." Knowing that you'd be better for the lesson of losing-no matter how painful.
We live in a time where success (outward wise) and glory matter a lot. Even though there really isn't as much value there as we think. The idea of mistakes/failures do not resonate very well in environments like ours. We'll peek behind the curtain only if no one is looking.
So whether you're responsible for a big project or trying change a behavior at home, you need to allow yourself room for mistakes. For example, when I first started to make running a part of my exercise routine I never considered breathing. I thought my breathing was fine just like always. Wrong! But the mistake (manifested by my lack of energy to finish) drove me to ask questions. Runner's World magazine helped me with the subject of proper breathing and my running got better. See my point?
Here are some ideas to consider, life and career, that will help you learn from your mistakes: